Get My Ex Back http://www.getmyexback.eu Tips on getting your ex back Tue, 03 May 2011 11:51:59 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 Discover The Difference Between Marriage Dating And Fun Datinghttp://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/discover-the-difference-between-marriage-dating-and-fun-dating/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/discover-the-difference-between-marriage-dating-and-fun-dating/#comments Tue, 03 May 2011 11:50:33 +0000 cary http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=259 is serious business. The people involved are looking for Mr. and Mrs. Right and are on a quest to tie the knot. Have you ever been on dates like that? It can be more like a stressful job interview than a really fun date.

When someone asks you out, you can tell if they’re looking for something long term like marriage, to find someone to spend intimate time with, or just for fun. The ones that are for fun are by far the ones you’ll have a better time with. The ones just to sleep with a person can turn out to be users you shouldn’t waste your time with. And the ones looking for marriage put too much pressure on a few simple dates.

If you’re the one looking for marriage, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to get married, of course. But it’s not something you should have in front of your mind when you go on a date. If you ask someone out based on whether or not you might marry them, you’ll probably be disappointed. And if you only say yes to those who seem like marriage material, you might be missing out on someone really great.

So are we telling you to lower your standards? If your end goal is marriage, dating can become a boring chore that’s more like screening applicants than the fun time it should be. And few things will put off the person who asked you out more than appearing desperate for a husband or wife when all they want to do is have some fun.

If you are ready for marriage, dating widely can be helpful, though. Don’t limit yourself to just the best looking person or the one you think might make a good mate. If there’s someone you think you’d have a good time with, ask for a date. Even if that person doesn’t seem to be someone you might want to marry.

In the early stages of dating, you don’t know the person well enough to judge what kind of mate they’d make. Sometimes you don’t even really know this right before you marry someone! So stop pre-judging people and eliminating possibilities too early. All you’re doing is narrowing down your choices for a fun date on Friday night.

If you open your eyes a little and ask (or say yes to) that person who you’ve overlooked all this time for whatever reason, you might be pleasantly surprised. So what if that person doesn’t seem to be marriage material! You don’t really know them well enough to make those kinds of judgments. Put aside thoughts of marriage for now and let yourself relax and have a good time.

This is not to say you can’t find your soul mate by dating; you can. Many people actually do it that way, especially when they’re not really trying. But if you’re too focused on marriage, dating is no longer the fun, social activity it should be.

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When You Have Herpes Dating Should Still Be Funhttp://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/when-you-have-herpes-dating-should-still-be-fun/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/when-you-have-herpes-dating-should-still-be-fun/#comments Tue, 03 May 2011 10:00:41 +0000 cary http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=271 If you have herpes, might sound like a depressing chore. You might be afraid that you’ll frighten a potential partner away when you tell them you have herpes. And you should prepare yourself for that. Some people will hear that and not give you a fair chance.

As painful as that can be, you shouldn’t let it get you down. For people who have herpes, dating can be more difficult. But there are many ways you can make dating an enjoyable part of your life again. You don’t have to feel like you shouldn’t ask someone out because of the disease.

It’s important for you to realize that you’re not alone. Herpes is a common disease. In fact, about 25% of the population in the United States carries the virus for genital herpes.  That’s 1 in four people who carry the disease. Unfortunately, most of them don’t even know they have it.

So you’re not alone, and you’re not the only person to suffer with herpes. Dating can be a challenge, even knowing that. But because so many people do suffer with the disease, there are ways you can meet them. Online sites designed to introduce people who have herpes are available to you.

You don’t have to limit yourself by thinking you must find a mate who has herpes. Dating can continue much as before, if you wish. But websites designed for those with the disease can help take a lot of pressure off you.  You won’t have to ‘break it’ to your date that you have herpes, because they have it too and are aware that you do.

Using sites like that can be a great way to get back on the dating scene without having to tell anyone you have herpes. Though it’s important to remember that you shouldn’t be ashamed of having the disease. It’s something that can happen to almost anyone. And you should realize that people with herpes can fall in , get married, even have a family, just as those without herpes can.

Right now, though, your focus is just on dating and having fun. Try the sites designed for herpes sufferers for some no-pressure fun. You might even find that special person who also has herpes, and you’ll never have to worry about spreading the disease to your partner. But you shouldn’t limit yourself to this type of dating, unless you want to.

There’s no reason you can’t date someone who doesn’t have herpes. In fact, that person is probably less likely to contract the disease from you than from someone else.  That’s because you know you have it and you’ll practice safe sex to keep them from getting it.  They’re more likely to get it from those 1 in 4 people who have it and don’t know it!

Tell your partner about your herpes before you have any kind of intimate contact. But it’s not necessary to tell them before the first date. Soon you’ll see that even with herpes, dating can still be fun and exciting.

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Use International Dating Services To Find Lovehttp://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/use-international-dating-services-to-find-love-2/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/use-international-dating-services-to-find-love-2/#comments Tue, 03 May 2011 09:34:11 +0000 cary http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=268 Can you really find that special person with international services? You have as much a chance of finding a special soul mate through a service like that, as a local service. In fact, your chances are probably higher. That’s because you’re not limited to a small geographical area!

If you haven’t met a special person in your local area, a local dating service can help you find people with similar interests.  But introduce you to singles around the world. This gives you a much wider selection to choose from. You’re no longer limited to those people you might see every day.

Whatever your reasons for using such a service, you need to be a little wary of those you meet.  At least at first, you should really question the motives of some of the other members. Some of the people from poorer countries especially might not be looking for . They might just be looking for a way out of their situation.

No one can fault them for that.  But international dating services can’t really keep people out who want to join. They have no way of knowing if someone is looking for love or just a better life. Many people, however, are looking for both.

Some people use international dating services solely to find a way out of their country or their bad situation. And some people use those services to find those very people and take advantage of them. So be aware if someone you just met showers you with flattery and claims of love, that they probably just want to be rescued. Don’t fall for those tactics, and don’t get someone else’s hopes up falsely.

A benefit of using an international service is that you tend to get to know another person better before you meet them.  With local dating services, the trend is to meet online and then meet in person right away. When the person you’re talking to is across the world, that’s not possible.

With international friends, you must really get to know each other well online before either person feels it would be a good idea to meet.  Because meeting is so much more complicated and expensive, you’ll only meet someone when you really feel they’re a good match for you.  This saves a lot of time and can save some heartache, too.

If you meet people quickly with local dating services, it’s easy to be disappointed.  You meet online and have a few things in common, so you might both be enthusiastic about meeting.  It’s very easy to rush into meeting someone, partly because some people think that if you want to put off meeting them, there might be something wrong with you!

But with a person a thousand miles away or more, there’s no pressure at all. The online relationship can be allowed to grow naturally. You’ll discover early just how much you really have in common. Though a slower process, international dating services really can help you find that special person.

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Use International Dating Services To Find Lovehttp://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/use-international-dating-services-to-find-love/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/use-international-dating-services-to-find-love/#comments Tue, 03 May 2011 05:34:41 +0000 cary http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=262 Can you really find that special person with international services? You have as much a chance of finding a special soul mate through a service like that, as a local service. In fact, your chances are probably higher. That’s because you’re not limited to a small geographical area!

If you haven’t met a special person in your local area, a local dating service can help you find people with similar interests.  But introduce you to singles around the world. This gives you a much wider selection to choose from. You’re no longer limited to those people you might see every day.

Whatever your reasons for using such a service, you need to be a little wary of those you meet.  At least at first, you should really question the motives of some of the other members. Some of the people from poorer countries especially might not be looking for . They might just be looking for a way out of their situation.

No one can fault them for that.  But international dating services can’t really keep people out who want to join. They have no way of knowing if someone is looking for love or just a better life. Many people, however, are looking for both.

Some people use international dating services solely to find a way out of their country or their bad situation. And some people use those services to find those very people and take advantage of them. So be aware if someone you just met showers you with flattery and claims of love, that they probably just want to be rescued. Don’t fall for those tactics, and don’t get someone else’s hopes up falsely.

A benefit of using an international service is that you tend to get to know another person better before you meet them.  With local dating services, the trend is to meet online and then meet in person right away. When the person you’re talking to is across the world, that’s not possible.

With international friends, you must really get to know each other well online before either person feels it would be a good idea to meet.  Because meeting is so much more complicated and expensive, you’ll only meet someone when you really feel they’re a good match for you.  This saves a lot of time and can save some heartache, too.

If you meet people quickly with local dating services, it’s easy to be disappointed.  You meet online and have a few things in common, so you might both be enthusiastic about meeting.  It’s very easy to rush into meeting someone, partly because some people think that if you want to put off meeting them, there might be something wrong with you!

But with a person a thousand miles away or more, there’s no pressure at all. The online relationship can be allowed to grow naturally. You’ll discover early just how much you really have in common. Though a slower process, international dating services really can help you find that special person.

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How Great Expectations Dating Can Set You Up For Failurehttp://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/how-great-expectations-dating-can-set-you-up-for-failure/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/how-great-expectations-dating-can-set-you-up-for-failure/#comments Mon, 02 May 2011 20:33:20 +0000 cary http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=253 How long have you had great expectations, only people you thought would be perfect for you? That’s a major reason why so many people think of a new person as something to dread. really can be fun again if you’ll let go of a few outdated ideas. Try to change your perspective, and you might be pleasantly surprised.

That’s not to say you shouldn’t go on a date with some great expectations. Dating wouldn’t be much fun if you prepared yourself for disappointment every time you went on a date. But the type of expectations you have needs to change. Then you’ll start to enjoy dating again, and it’ll be even easier for you to find that special someone.

First, if you go on every date looking for a spouse, stop thinking that way now. Even if you’re just looking for a steady girlfriend or boyfriend, you should rethink it. You might very well find the perfect person by dating. But going on dates with that expectation can certainly ruin the fun.

When you go out with someone with that kind of great expectation, dating becomes a process. It goes from a fun time with someone you enjoy spending time with, to some kind of try out for a mate. Even if you don’t say as much, the pressure is there under the surface. And that unspoken tension can ruin any date.

Imagine if someone asked you out with that great expectation? Dating them would make you feel like a bug under glass, wouldn’t it? You might be flattered at first, thinking they thought you might be marriage material. But soon enough you might feel uncomfortably scrutinized, and rightfully so.

Thoughts of marriage shouldn’t really enter into dating until you’ve been seeing the same person a lot. Even then it might be too soon. Usually you move from dating to dating them exclusively, and then to a commitment long before thoughts of marriage enter into the picture. This is the best way to keep things fun, and keep your heart from being broken unnecessarily.

So now that you see it’s best not to even think about marriage or a serious relationship yet, you’ve freed yourself up to have fun dating again. Date someone because you like that person. He or she interests you, and seems like a fun person to spend time with. It doesn’t have to be a serious affair.

Ask your co-worker out to the movie you both want to see and just plan to have fun. Have great expectations, but only that you’ll have a great time, not that you’ll want to pop the question! If more comes of it, it’s a wonderful bonus. And you might find that with the pressure off, it’s actually easier for more to come of it.

Finally, if you find you’re on a date with someone who’s looking for marriage, don’t be discouraged. If you focus on your type of great expectations, dating can still be fun, and you might even get them to lighten up a little.

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Find Love Dating for Funhttp://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/find-love-dating-for-fun/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/featured/find-love-dating-for-fun/#comments Mon, 02 May 2011 19:49:24 +0000 cary http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=255 Some people think that to find different people you have to be the luckiest person in the world. They might think that they’ll just meet that special person one day and know he or she is the one. Or that is little more than a fun activity to get them out of the house. The person they will just sort of appear in their lives and they’ll know.

But for most of us, those are fairy tale notions.  While it’s possible to meet that special person and have a feeling right away, it’s just as possible to find love dating and going out with others in a traditional way. We might find that perfect person at our new job or in our new neighborhood. But by dating a variety of people, we give ourselves a better chance of finding someone to love.

Does that sound like it can make dating quite a process?  Searching for love on every date can certainly ruin the fun of dating. It can make you feel far too much pressure every time you ask a person out.  It’s as if you should only ask someone out if you think it’s possible that you might fall in love with them!

That would make the idea that you might find love dating one that certainly takes the fun out of a simple dinner or night spent at the movies. But you can take the pressure off of yourself right now. Don’t view dating as a means to an end. Every date should not be seen as a pre-nuptial meeting.

In fact, some believe it’s easier to find love dating when you’re not even looking for it. As with many things in life, when you stop worrying about it, somehow it’s easier for it to happen. So before you ask that person you like out on a date, decide a few things. You’ll have a much better time.

Decide that you’re just going for fun!  You’re asking this person on a date because you like them, and enjoy their company. A few hours spent together out for the evening will be a good time. And yes, you may find you like each other a lot, but that shouldn’t be your focus.

When you relax and stop feeling pressure to have some sort of love connection with every date, you’ll have more fun. And chances are good that you’ll date more.  Because you’ve lowered your expectations, you’ll ask people out you might not have considered before.  And on the other hand, if you’re the one often asked, you’ll probably say yes to more dates than ever before because there’s no ‘love’ pressure.

And who knows, maybe you’re destined to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right one day at work. Or maybe you’ll meet them waiting in line at a store, a concert, or in the crowd at some kind of event. But you also might find love dating if you’ll decide just to have fun and see what happens.

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What To Do If You Miss Your Exhttp://www.getmyexback.eu/break-up/what-to-do-if-you-miss-your-ex/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/break-up/what-to-do-if-you-miss-your-ex/#comments Thu, 10 Mar 2011 23:59:16 +0000 admin http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=250 Going through a break up is never easy. In fact, it almost always sucks (to be blunt). Still, in a way you are just relieved to be done with it. Or so you thought. Then as some time passes, you start to realize that you still miss your ex. Oh no! What are you going to do? This isn’t supposed to happen, is it? The two of you are broken up, and that’s that. Let’s take a deeper look at the issue, and you will see that things may not be quite as bad as they seem right now.

So, you miss your ex, but is that a bad thing? That really is the question, and getting to the bottom of it will determine how well you deal with your feelings for your ex.

The first thing you need to figure out is whether you really miss your ex or not. Remember, your emotions are going to be running high, and your thinking won’t always be clear after a break up. You may think you miss your ex, but the reality is that you may miss having somebody to hang out with. Or maybe you are afraid you will never find again. Neither of those things are really about your ex, they are about you, and that’s okay. The main thing is that you get to the root of what your true feelings are.

Assuming you really do miss your ex, you have a decision to make: should you get over them, or try to get back with your ex? You may have a gut reaction to that question, but you don’t want to act on it too quickly. There is no wrong answer here, but you do need to think about it carefully.

If you choose to get on with your life, then you will need to work through your emotions. Yes, you miss your ex, but now it’s time to move on. It won’t be easy, but you need to do it if you ever want to be happy again. If you can’t seem to do it on your own, then talk to a friend, member of the clergy, or a counselor. Each of them can help in their own way, and you’ll be glad once it’s done.

On the other hand, you may decide that you want to try to get your ex back. This brings on a whole new set of challenges, but it can be done. Luckily, there has been a lot of information written about how to do this. So, rather than going off on a whole different tangent, suffice it to say that you can easily find out how to get your ex back if that’s what you have decided to do.

Just because you miss your ex, doesn’t mean you have to live with that feeling. Though it may not seem possible to you now, you can get through this. You have a few options, but the key is to take action. It will take some effort, but it will be worth it once you’re happy again.

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Dealing With Lost Lovehttp://www.getmyexback.eu/break-up/dealing-with-lost-love/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/break-up/dealing-with-lost-love/#comments Thu, 10 Mar 2011 23:58:35 +0000 admin http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=248 There have been so many things written about lost , yet none of them really resonate with us…until we have lost a of our own. Then, all of a sudden, all of the books, poems, movies and songs make so much more sense; they really speak to us. If you have recently gone through a divorce or a break up, then there is hope.

While it’s not enough to make you feel 100% better, you can take at least a small measure of comfort from knowing that you are not alone. Countless people have had to deal with the same thing. Granted, no two situations are exactly the same, just as no two people are the same. However, there has been enough shared heartache over the centuries that some really good advice has been handed down.

Of course you feel awful, and that’s perfectly normal. Guilt, anger, shame, confusion, doubt, sadness, depression, relief, and any number of other emotions all mix together. You’re not really sure what to make of it. Sometimes you do quite well, and other times it’s so painful that it seems as though you will never be the same again. Take heart! Just because you have doesn’t mean you have lost your mind…at least not permanently.

Take some time to get away from everything. Now, that doesn’t mean you should crawl into a corner and wallow in self-pity. But you should try to clear your mind of the break for a while. If you have any vacation time from work, then now may be a good time to take it. A small vacation where you aren’t surrounded by constant reminders of your past relationship is a good way to get the fresh perspective you need.

When you come back you can start to look at the relationship again. The key is not get too worked up about it. If you find that you get over-emotional when thinking about it, then take a break, and return to it when you are ready again. You must work through this.

The reason working through it is so important is that it’s the only way to get past it. It may seem impossible, but it can be done. You must confront those feelings, and the events that caused your lost love. It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it. Each time you do it, you will find your feelings improving little by little.

The truth is that it doesn’t work for everybody, so what if this isn’t enough to make you feel better? Then it’s time to get help from someone else. This can be a friend, member of the clergy or a counselor. Whom you choose isn’t as important as the fact that you’re getting some help. There is no reason why you need to feel miserable forever after a break up. And whether you ever try to work things out or not, getting back to some sense of normalcy will only make you better in the long run.

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5 Signs Your Ex Wants You Backhttp://www.getmyexback.eu/how-to-get-your-ex-back/5-signs-your-ex-wants-you-back/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/how-to-get-your-ex-back/5-signs-your-ex-wants-you-back/#comments Thu, 10 Mar 2011 23:57:56 +0000 admin http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=246 Yuck! Going through a break up is the pits! There was a time when the two of you were happy together, but then something happened and now the two of you have split apart. Now you have mixed feelings; one moment you are glad you are rid of your ex and all the hassles of your relationship, and the next moment you are wondering if they might want you back.

It’s perfectly normal to fantasize about the two of you working things out and being a couple again. And who knows? It could happen. However, you don’t want to start trying to get your ex back if they have no interest in doing the same thing, right? That’s a good point. What follows are some signs your .

1. They aren’t very nice to you. Even if they seem to want to do nothing but argue, there is always a chance of working things out when the lines of communication are open. Perhaps your ex is afraid that you aren’t interested in getting back together, but yet they still want to talk to you. So, they argue in an attempt to cover up their true motives.

2. They won’t leave you alone. Does it always seem like your ex is “accidentally” bumping into you at the store or other places? Are they calling, texting or sending you e-mail? All of these things show that they want to be around you and are sure signs that your ex wants you back. Of course, if they are actually stalking you, then that has to stop. Other than that, their being around you is a positive sign.

3. They want to do some catching up. If they want to hear what you’ve been up to then it shows that they still care for you on some level. There is a chance that they may not want to get back together, but as long as they are being friendly and want to know how you are, there is a chance of eventually working things out between the two of you.

4. They buy you gifts. Some people show their feelings by buying gifts for the people they care for. Not only that, who would buy gifts for somebody they have no obligation to or no longer care for?

5. They flat out tell you. Well, it would be hard to get a stronger signal than that. While you may be excited by the idea of getting back together, you should proceed with some caution. There will be a lot of things the two of you need to work out, and that’s going to take some time. But, if your ex says they want you back, then go for it!

These are some of the best signs your ex wants you back. However, even if they don’t show any of those signs, there is still a chance they want to work things out. Pay attention the things your ex does and says, and look for any hints that they still have feelings for you.

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How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Without Scaring Him Awayhttp://www.getmyexback.eu/get-ex-boyfriend-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back-without-scaring-him-away/ http://www.getmyexback.eu/get-ex-boyfriend-back/how-can-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back-without-scaring-him-away/#comments Wed, 16 Feb 2011 22:20:10 +0000 admin http://www.getmyexback.eu/?p=244 There are a myriad of different hints and tips that you can follow if you are asking yourself ‘How can I get my ?’ and your primary goal is not to frighten him away. Break ups definitely do happen, whether we like them or not, but a large number of relationships can be rekindled if you take the right steps to rekindle them without overdoing it. Here are five quick tips for learning how you can get your .

5 – If you are asking ‘How can I get my ex boyfriend back without him away?’, then the first step in the process needs to be to analyze and study him. You need to be attentive when you speak to him, and be careful about what he says and how you respect. Because you are no longer seeing each other, an interesting facade is going to be built up between you. You need to read more deeply into what he is saying to you, and what he isn’t saying to you, to get a clear cut idea of where everything stands.

4 – Be on the look out rather than being jealous. The best way to figure out how he is feeling about you following a break up, and the best way to figure out what your chances are with him after the split, is to see how he reacts when he is around other women. Does he put you down in the presence of other women? Does he stab you in the back, or does he stand up for you? You may never get direct answers, but he is probably offering plenty of subtle hints in public.

3 – If you are asking ‘How can I get my ex boyfriend back without scaring him away?’ then you definitely want to avoid the mind games. It’s hard to be reserved and avoid playing games with an ex, but because signals are so important when it comes to rekindling an old flame, it is absolutely vital that you emit the right signals, rather than playing with him. Let him know how you feel, subtlety, but with honesty.

2 – Keep your cards close to your chest to gain an edge over him. Power is key in all aspects of life, including and relationships. Being honest rather than playing games is absolutely essential, but that does not mean you should confess your undying for him, because this is a sure fire way to extinguish the flame once and for all.

1 – Take care of yourself, or improve yourself. Despite who was responsible for the breakup, it’s important to walk away from it with a need to improve yourself. If you want him to regret his decision, work to stay in shape and make improvements to your life, and he will notice these positive changes and start to want you back again. Sometimes it really is this simple.

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